Meeting Bart Simpson on Super Bowl Sunday

Part 2 of The Boy We Loved, Once Upon a Time – posts about my nephew, Jeff, who died of cancer 25 years ago this week. In 1996, Super Bowl Sunday was on January 28. I had just flown back to Texas to spend time with Tom, Kris, Jeff and Lisa, for what would beContinue reading “Meeting Bart Simpson on Super Bowl Sunday”

The Boy We Loved, Once Upon a Time

On February 11, 2021, it will be 25 years since my only nephew, Jeff, died of cancer. He was 13 years old and had been diagnosed with a brain tumor a little more than one year before that. It’s hard to know what he would be like at 38. He was bright, clever, loving andContinue reading “The Boy We Loved, Once Upon a Time”

Using My Words

Lots of people select a word to focus on at the beginning of a new year. Google “word for the year,” and you’ll find nearly three billion entries to chase down — offering reasons for doing so, tips for how to choose one, and lists of possible words. I had never chosen a word forContinue reading “Using My Words”

Christmas Letter Mash-Up

It’s been several years (okay, a decade or more) since I sent a Christmas letter, and I only wrote a few. While we sent Christmas cards out every year starting with my oldest child’s first Christmas in 1988, my first Christmas letter was sent in 2000. Twenty years ago. Wow. Here are excerpts from thatContinue reading “Christmas Letter Mash-Up”

Necessity: the Mother of Tradition

At the end of Thanksgiving Day I was surprised to find a lovely text message from my niece Shelly, sent to me along with her other aunts and her mom. It was a thank you message for our being the “hands and hard work behind” her holiday memories, which she has new appreciation for afterContinue reading “Necessity: the Mother of Tradition”

Tend the New Growth

I’ve always liked typewriters. When I was growing up on Hampshire Drive, we had a vintage Underwood typewriter in our basement. Around the same time that I fell head-over-heels in love with books, I decided that I should be a writer so I could weave tapestries of words like the authors I was fangirling over.Continue reading “Tend the New Growth”

The Quilts We Carry

I visited my mom tonight. She is a hospice patient so we’re allowed to visit her at her assisted living residence, even during the pandemic.Just as we do on most Saturday nights these days, we watched the Lawrence Welk show on public television. We comment on the era they’ve chosen for the program aired thatContinue reading “The Quilts We Carry”

So…Then What?

Slight disclaimer: 1) I promise not to keep bringing up George Bailey in every post. I find meaning in a few iconic American movies, and he showed up here, again; 2) I’m sorry if you’re not familiar with the plots of the movies I’m referencing, but they’re iconic, so… ; 3) I don’t currently knowContinue reading “So…Then What?”